Ep.7 Second chances.You deserve to be forgiven. You deserve to forgive.

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Hello, and

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welcome to the Borealis experience. I'm your host

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Aurora. And I'm very happy to be spending some time with you

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today. I hope you had a good day so far, I hope it's flowing and

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you feel good about yourself and you can be in the present and

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just feel good. If you don't feel great, no worries we have

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all those days. And this little episode might cheer you up, make

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you feel better about yourself, but circumstances about other

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people. Today, I want to talk about second chances. I think we

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have to talk more about second chances. Because we are way too

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hard with ourselves when it comes to mistakes that we've

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made in the past disappointment that we created in other

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people's universe. And we have to learn to forgive ourselves.

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First, we have to let go of regret, we have to believe that

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we can be better people. In this moment From today on, from this

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second on, it is a choice, a very simple choice that you

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make. Letting go of your past and being a different, better

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person today. Without being dishonest with your soul and

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your purpose. You can still be on your path, you can still be

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chasing money chasing that job chasing that relationship, but

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you can be that better person and still be authentic. That is

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what I meant. And when it comes to other people, I learned that

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there's no other way than forgiving, and forgetting. And

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knowing that other people change to they grow. They fear regret.

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They feel fear of having resentment from others, chasing

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them, you know, like bad karma.

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So what I invite you to do today is just play with the idea that

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you could be that forgiving person that you could be totally

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forgiven and start a new with a clean slate. Do you say clean

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slate clean shirt. I know you know what I mean. And I know you

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know I'm not native English, so you're not going to harshly

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judge me here. So let's get back to the topic. forgiving others

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is what we have to do in order to live a free, happy content

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life. If you still cling on to resentment, if you still think

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that person deserves punishment, that person deserve to suffer,

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because they hurt you in the past, then you will never be

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free you will never live a life that fields good to your soul.

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Think about the pine cone, a little metaphor here. We have

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plants, trees seeds out here that need fire to start the

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ignition of growth. So these seeds have to go through a

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forest fire in order to grow a tree. And I love to use that

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metaphor. I love to use it when it comes to people because

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there's people out there who like flowers, just glow grow

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from a seed and then glow. might as well use the word that

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slipped out. And they have a very simple life, a

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straightforward life an easy life. And there's people out

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there who have so much energy and sometimes Even with good

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intentions, they pave their way into a criminal life and then

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end up in prison and have to, yeah, digest the consequences

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and consequences and everything. And there's people who are,

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yeah, constantly making mistakes. And you just think,

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why is that person not stopping this? And why can they not just

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be straightforward and not making those mistakes anymore.

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And I include myself 100%, there is people out there, excuse me,

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that need to make certain experiences, they have to go

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through trauma, they have to go through pain, in order to become

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better people in order to become who they're meant to be. It's

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just like the butterfly, you know, the little worm, or sorry,

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the caterpillar, who then transitions into a butterfly,

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it's a dramatic change. It's a beautiful change for an

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outsider. But for that Caterpillar, it's certainly very

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scary and uncomfortable. And there's so many caterpillars out

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there, who go through pain and transformation, but still not

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see, the butterfly that they became, they still cling to the

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pain, they still cling to the past, and are so sad and even

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pity themselves for having to go through that pain. And I'm not

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looking down to these people, because I've been that person

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before. I didn't understand why me Why did I always have to go

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through intense heartbreak, intense feelings and

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disappointment and disappointment with with people.

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And now I understand now I get it, and I'm okay, I'm resilient

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enough, I can handle this pain, I can move on, I can forgive.

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And I can inspire other people to never give up and to,

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especially when the going gets tough to believe that this is

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for a good reason. Even though you don't see the good reason

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yet, it is for a good reason to go through pain at times because

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it will unlock energy that we need out here in this world, it

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will start ignite healing inside of yourself that you can then

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use to support other people out there who are maybe at a stage

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before you like earlier than you. You can be a leader when

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you went through pain. And now I touch the microphone. Sorry, if

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that was disturbing for your ears. When you went through

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pain, and you were able to see the light at the end of the

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tunnel, you can guide people through that tunnel know and

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give them all the support and everything they need to make it

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through. So we have to forgive the sinners, we have to forgive

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people that hurt us in the past. Because we're all just a shitty

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experience a shitty decision away from being a criminal from

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being a bad person, right? It's all a choice that we make. And

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some people make very bad decisions, shitty choices, but

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we can't keep beating them up. Because it's exactly those

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people who can at a later stage maybe help us go through stuff.

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We're all in this together. And I want you to look at yourself

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today. And see if you cannot forgive yourself just a little

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more. Even if it was a slight meaning less mistake for others

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that you've made in the past, but you still cling to it you

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still define yourself by in, try to let go more and more. Every

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time you judge yourself for that mistake. Just let it go. You are

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forgiven from the outsiders. So forgive yourself now. Thank you

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so much for listening. And I'm very, very, very grateful to

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have you here. You don't even know

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and I'll be out there.