Ep. 37 Is gratefulness an option or are you only seeing pain and misery? w/ Dr Kirpal Singh - The Borealis Experience

Episode 37

Ep. 37 Is gratefulness an option or are you only seeing pain and misery? w/ Dr Kirpal Singh

Published on: 23rd July, 2021

Have you ever observed people when it comes to saying: thank you?

It's my new favorite hobby: to see how people show appreciation.

Gratitude and Appreciation go hand in hand and you can go a long way if you have a deep sense of gratitude for everything you have in your life.

Now..

How about things/ situations in your life that don't bring you joy?

how about pain, suffering and illness?

I learnt that especially during those tough/ unwanted times of huge resistance/ of pain we need to practice to focus on gratitude. It is not random positivity I'm talking about but keeping your mind in a healthy place, not letting it slide into negatives and the good old victim mentality. Keeping your mind in check to find solutions and to see opportunity.

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Hello, hello and welcome to the Borealis

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experience. I feel very honored to have Dr. Kirpal Singh with me

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today again from Florida, beautiful sunny Florida. We will

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be talking about the importance of practicing gratitude

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and the importance of sharing with other people sharing

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whenever we learn a lesson, whenever we feel like we are

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growing or we learn something important and life lesson, it is

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really important to share with other people to Yeah, help them

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grow as well and to help them find their own path. It is not

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so much to tell people what to do. It is about you sharing your

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experience, and people being able to apply these tools these

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lessons in their life. Thank you so much for making the time here

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today. Dr. Singh. And yeah, I'm excited to hear what you have to

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share about this topic with us.

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Well, Aurora, thank you for inviting me to the program,

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greeting to you and all the audience, who may be listening

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to this program.

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You know, I

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as you know from my last name, singh, singh means

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lion, and literally.

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And I grew up in Punjab, north part of India,

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and income. My background is that I grew up in a

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simple household with my parents and my siblings.

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And we practice

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what they call faith called sikh religion, Sikhism

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which is based on the teachings of Guru Nanak.

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Guru Nanak.

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Like, is founder of, I'm in Guru Nanak. The timeline goes like

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when Columbus discovered America.

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And when Martin Luther in Germany started the Protestant

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movement.

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So that's the kind of timeline in which I grew up. I grew up I

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was born and I grew up with that kind of understanding.

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So in our, in our neighborhood, all kinds of people lived, who

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had different religion, different castes.

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And so my so we were living near an airbase.

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And where people came, was stationed from all parts of

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India,

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you know, far flung areas like

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Banga, Calcutta, which is about 4000 miles away from where I

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lived, and way down and close to Sri Lanka. From there, Bombay,

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and all sorts of things. My mother used to help them all,

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because we rented rooms, and my mother used to help them their

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wives, the mothers them, because they were so much far away from

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their families.

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And my mother

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used to remind me, whenever I get a little anxious and angry

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that you know, our

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breakfast is late, or our lunches late and we are late for

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the supper again, mom. And she'll say, some, so and so

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needed help. So it's important that we help because they have

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so far away from the families.

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And you know, we can only be good six if we follow the

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teachings of Bill namic.

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Who

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taught us that always live your life in gratitude. And that

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gratitude, then sort of wells up the state of exalted spirit in

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you. And that exalted spirit, then you use for the welfare of

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the humanity. So only this is an opportunity for us to practice

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what we

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talk about during the day are saying our prayers, so don't get

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anxious.

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I will be there and we will you will have your food. And

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you know these people when I grew older, they used to write

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to my mother from far flung parts of India and saying how

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thankful they are how difficult situation for them it was and

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some of them even will come back and visit with my

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Parents,

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which was quite a unique situation, I didn't quite

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realize as a child that. But another thing my mother used to

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say, you know how these people are far away from the families,

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who knows one day, you may be far away from your family

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who's going to help, I'm not going to be that. There'll be

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somebody like me who may accommodate you to help endured

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difficult situations. You know, our override was so true when I

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moved from my home to my medical college, from there to other

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places, and to England for five years there. And then in United

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States since 1971, for last 50 years almost.

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I always had somebody helping me, one way or another. And it

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always reminded my mother, how important is to live a life of

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gratitude, how important it is, it kind of revolves around it.

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So someone has to start practicing it, along with

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gratitude, forgiveness, don't hold grudges against anyone, if

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someone said something

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inappropriately, and cause you bad feelings, just let it go.

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Because after all, the malware maker, you know, as we are

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taught, is not just only made us, he made the whole world,

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whole creation, and the maker is present in every aspect of our

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life. So even if someone is angry, just say, there's a

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lesson to learn from this situation. You don't have to get

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into confrontation, bypass it, or forgive and move on in your

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life. You know, those were sober lessons. sober lesson didn't

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look like very good when I was a child. But as I grew older, I

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had my own children, and my own practice, and interacted in

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different countries and different people. I thought my

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mother, having gone to only five rates of education.

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She was a PhD and communication are more than that. And how our

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vision was, and how her vision she directly got from her

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spiritual upbringing, from the teachings of Ronnie who taught

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us that you know, we will remain in gratitude, always, this will

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exert exalted your spirits, and then

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and use that exalted energy in the service of humanity. And

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that's what life is all about. Yes, and it is a universal

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language, right? You can see as person as grateful and

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appreciative, you don't have to speak the same language, you

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will feel it. And those people are usually the people who

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receive the most as well. You want to support someone who is

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going to be appreciative of your work. And it's just an Yeah,

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very incredible thing to learn as a child already and then to

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apply it in your youth and during adulthood.

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Do you practice like consciously practice gratitude on a daily?

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Let's say, do you have a routine in the morning or maybe in the

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evening? where you sit down and yeah, practice gratitude?

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Well, interesting. That's a good question. The way I started my

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morning is, I get up thank God for the good day,

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that I slept well.

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And I thank him for all the health good health, he has given

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family around me the opportunity to learn, be educated

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and serve humanity. And I thank him for that by remembering him

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in my meditation. And I spend about half an hour on that. And

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then I follow with a we have, you know, central place in

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Sikhism is called

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Golden Temple, Amritsar, in India, they issue a guidance

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from there every day,

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for us to live life. You know, and I read that and then I

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reflect upon that, that what is the guidance that comes and most

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of the time it is to reinforce the spirit of gratitude.

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Reinforce the spirit of love. It is to reinforce, forgive and

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create goodwill. And we always wait for, for whatever gifts you

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have, and continue to share with them with each and every one

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come in your way. And do not be arrogant and always remember

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Your makeup is all in our master of all, and you do in your

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makers name all these things, not in my name, or someone else

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name. And the maker is maker of each and everything around us.

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And so this is our way of being grateful and serving in daily

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basis. So I don't plan on serving in any particular way,

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but it is a part of my life. Yeah, yeah. And I have one more

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question regarding gratitude. Because before we dive into

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sharing life lessons with other people,

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what would you recommend, like when you are in deep misery when

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you are in deep pain?

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money issues, or like the weather is really affecting the

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crop of a lot of agriculture people here in Canada right now?

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Like when you are in deep distress? Can you still practice

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gratitude? Or is there something better? Like, can you? I know,

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some people say, Oh, be grateful for the lesson you will be

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learning during those stressful times. But I feel when you are

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in deep stress, it is very tough to think about gratitude. Can

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you share your thoughts on that?

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That's a wonderful question.

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That's another thing

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about which we get that this guidance, and the scripture we

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follow is called deliverance.

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And it is full of those things. One of the hams comes like this,

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oh, God saved this burning, or whichever way it is possible. We

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all your children, we need such and such things. But you are the

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one who knows what is best for us. So please grant our request.

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And

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if that is in accordance with your divine well and part of the

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Divine play, and help us to understand and go through all

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these situation with couraging, even if,

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you know situation doesn't appear that great right now. But

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help us to keep you in our mind all the time. And remember,

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overall, and in the long run, you have good

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in your mind for all immigration, including myself

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and my family. So this is how I approach the situation. That's

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how we were taught as my mother and father to do that. And

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that's what I found it in a practical way, like, one time.

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And this is many, many years ago, I accidentally ran into the

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St. Francis prayer, where he says on the odd Wakeman

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instrument of peace, which is really the whole prayer is about

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gratitude. Instead of saying Me, me, me and I are what can you do

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for other people no matter what the situation maybe then. And

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there's always something like in my particular case, I am a

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physician and I have written prescription that's my skill,

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diagnose and allied prescription. I've done the free

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of charge numerous times. And I feel grateful that I'm able to

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do so and help someone who's not able to do that. And also remind

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me you know, you know any anything for me, don't worry

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that you need to pay me anything about that. You'll do some good

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some somebody else. So that our sense of gratitude, spreads

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around and help seizure we all parcel the same creation. We are

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all branches of the same tree. We just need to cooperate and

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appreciate each other.

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This is such a beautiful lesson I'm learning here. Thank you so

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much for sharing your thoughts on that. And then when it comes

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to lessons that we learn in life, enlightening moments, I

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feel sometimes people tend to not share with people they think

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okay, I learned my lesson I was in this specific situation, and

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I'm feeling better now.

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They might share with close friends but they don't tend to

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share too much with with strangers or with acquaintances.

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Can we talk about the importance of sharing life lessons

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with other people?

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I think it is very important to do that. You know, just like I

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told you the example for my mother or she did.

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And I taught those kinds of things with my, my children and

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grandchildren. And even in my practice I've shared with people

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about those things. You know, people say that I like this. I

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don't have that and you know, blame others for the problems.

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No, we don't need to blame anyone, we need to learn to

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improvise things. Like for example, growing up, I was a

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hyperactive child, you know, my mother, the way she dealt with

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my situation was, she will

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use ash, even in India we make fire with from the word and then

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use that ash. This is talking about

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70 years ago, when I was

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a little kid, she will have half the ash spread on the floor. And

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the other half she will use to scrub the utensils, you know, in

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which we are eaten. And we didn't have soap. And so by that

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time,

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so

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she'll on that she's like the alphabet. And then she'll tell

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me where my finger to trace that. This is how I learned my

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alphabet on that ash. And on that ash, I learned how to do

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123 numbers on that, as she taught me how to add,

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multiplies, divide and all those things. We didn't have a slide,

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we didn't have any papers, anything just on their ash. With

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my mother's help, I learned gather all that elementary

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education. And on that, she taught me what I she she used to

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have an old workbook from which I read, she taught me how to

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read our prayer books and everything you know, I learned

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at home from my mother while she was working. And this is how she

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engaged my attention.

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So where there is a well there is a way Yeah, like the same

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Necessity is the mother of invention. So we should not keep

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blaming others. But we should look at the resources like that

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thirsty grow. You know, the example when when will he read I

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think is an Aesop's Fables that how he will thirsty and how he

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is wondering what to do. And suddenly his eyes go on a

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journey. But the water is right on the bottom. He doesn't know

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he doesn't have a long enough me to drink it. So he saw a bunch

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of pebbles. He went one by one he brought the end and the water

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rose up and he was able to purchase this. It's not a matter

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of truth or untruth of the story is the lesson which is important

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to learn from there, that when we pray, seek help, new insights

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appear in my mind, we implement them and help them to learn and

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grow and move on in our lives. And like that there are so many

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stories in these books, you know, so fables and you name it

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all, even nursery rhymes.

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You know when you say Humpty Dumpty sat on a

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foot of God than him itself, but what are they talking about is

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how the proud person you know when he's Eru and and i think

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like they're, they fall to pieces, you know, still there

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are people who are kind enough to put them together. Even the

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wonder in the sky, Twinkle, twinkle little star, looking at

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all those things, they have wonderful lesson that how around

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us, there's a beauty around us nature around we can reflect

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even if you're hurting, are we short of money, and still we can

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have joyful things

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coming out of

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this realisation Yeah, and what I'm learning right now with you

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is that when we have that mind of, or heart open for gratitude,

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and willing to see a lesson instead of a punishment, then

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also creativity can flow then you can come up with ideas and

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and find solutions. You're not stuck in the negative and like

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hitting your head against a wall. You are open and you're

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there to learn. And you see possibilities instead of

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pain and suffering and you're trying to rise above the

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stressful situation and

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find solutions. Yeah, and your mom like oh my god, I was gonna

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cry. It is so beautiful. She was able to channel your your

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hyperactive energy into using your brain and learning

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something new. Instead of punishing you for being

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hyperactive. She knew exactly that. You can you can channel

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this energy and create something with it. And this is like a

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very, very beautiful little story that you shared with us

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there.

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Thank you as she was I was eternally grateful to her. The

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older I got, the more appreciation I developed my

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mother's ingenuity and the way she

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He did things with me. And I used to point out to her she

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used to say, son, I don't remember, I don't remember

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anymore. She was like 97 years old when she passed away in DC.

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Surely, my younger brother is a mother, you don't remember why I

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do. I wouldn't be the way I am. If you hadn't put all your

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love and affection and care and teaching in me, you grown me.

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And then I use those skills to help my siblings pass down to

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them. Yeah, yeah. And to my friends and neighbors and other

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people. And in my practice, when I became a professional, I said,

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source of all is you.

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I use your data.

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This is so beautiful. I met a person the other day, and this

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person went through a lot of pain, health struggles,

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in her life, and I feel she has a hard time. Like now she's

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she's very wise and takes really good care of her body and is

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very healthy. But all the lessons that she learned along

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her way, she has a hard time to share with people and I feel

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sometimes we went through so much pain, so much suffering

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that we see other people have it better.

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People are not suffering like we do. And we have the tools, we

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have the ability to make them suffer less. But we think they

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have to learn it themselves. And I have a problem with that.

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Because I feel if I have the wisdom, if I have the tools,

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then I should give it to the other person and not judge if

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they have an easier or not. Do you understand? say, Yeah, I do.

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And I concur with you. And I, you know, our disabilities are a

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blessing in disguise to like, for example, I not only had that

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hyperactivity problem, I had other problems too. Like, for

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example, I have a cell poor sense of orientation. When the

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GPS game, there was a great blessing for me, I I used to get

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lost with my directions. And then I had a problem with my

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right and left, you know, orientation. And I have a color

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blindness, but all those things, although they seem shortcoming

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on the surface, but they were actually really blessings for

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me, when I look back into them. You know, what kind of blessings

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it made me ask people for help. It made gave me that courage

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instead of it being withdrawn and,

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and grieve about it. I will say, you know, I don't understand,

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could you guide me here, please. And I guided the same way other

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people when opportunity came and all that because someone else

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had helped me too. So in other words, you know, we can rule out

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our short circuit by calling them shortcomings, shortcomings,

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or we can say this is the way it is. That's the reality. But it

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doesn't have to stay that way, we can modify the situation by

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mustering courage. And by using the God given skills to us to

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move on in our lives. You know, like a child is born with a

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harelip, or with some kind of deformities. Well,

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we don't know why this happened. And all all kinds of theories

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are there, for what we know is that child needs help. So

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there's all kinds of help available, including surgery, if

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necessary to fix their problems. But there was a time that

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nothing was available when I started my career as a

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physician, but later on so many developments take place and all

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that. So if we continue to move on instead of brooding over why

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it happened. But as we start

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to learn less, the reality is how to fix it and move on, then

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we can improve the society change the world. Because no one

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knows answers for everything. We do know, certain things need to

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be fixed. Instead of waiting somewhere else to do, why don't

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I started my level

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and then have more resources to do it, and encourage others to

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do it. That's the philosophy of life.

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And that, again, comes from my spiritual background with Guru

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Nanak. You know where he's always emphasized. He said,

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doesn't matter what your religion is, you know, you can

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be anything. He said, your actions speak louder than the

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words and the simple word and you can call yourself whatever

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you want. But that's just a verbal situation. You have to

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move on further. You can call that I love God with everything

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and all that but where is the Lord you don't see him. You

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don't. You are God's creation when we're connected.

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Whichever way you like, whether you're gardening or whether

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helping whatever. So he said you action actions is the one which

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is going to make a difference in your life, not just

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being paranoid or talking about I don't have this and that.

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And this is so beautiful and, and critical to hear for many,

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many people, I mean COVID the whole pandemic, like brought so

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much pain and misery and to the world and to see that they can

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be good coming out of this, and there can be solutions found and

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new career communities created. And I really like how you, you

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look at your perspective on life and love. It is very inspiring.

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I have one last question for you.

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If

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all your work, all our videos here were to be deleted. And

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it's your last day of your life and you have a piece of paper

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and a pen. What would be

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the words that you want to or the lessons or the wisdom that

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you would like to share

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with the world, before you leave.

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I will say thank you for this life of my maker.

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And thank you for being part of your creation and opportunity to

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parties participate in this cosmic play.

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And all the gifts you have given to me, you have made it possible

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for me to use to help myself, my family and the people around. So

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I'm very grateful and rest of my life, whatever is left, please

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continue the same blessing on. So they live in this world.

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In gratitude to you and to the society in which I've been

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raised, doing something for them, instead of just living for

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me.

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This is so beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing your deep

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wisdom with us here and for making the time and it's it's

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very inspiring for people to hear what you have to say

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because we can apply it right away. We don't have to, we can

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buy books and read about gratitude. But we can apply it

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right now right here and our lives, with our family, with our

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friends with strangers. And I love the simplicity and I love

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how easy it is and easily accessible and how we can feel

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it comes from the heart. Your message comes from the heart. So

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deep gratitude for you here my friend, thank you for being

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here. And

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I feel we will do a new episode here sometime soon in the summer

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or maybe in fall.

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Thank you for the chance to

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have a conversation with you and be able to reach to your

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audience. For me, gratefulness, gratitude is the key to personal

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satisfaction and good life and to perpetuate it that way. Thank

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Perfection is nothing I’m thriving for yet I can say I’m proud of my path/ life journey.

I'm no longer enslaved to my #depression
I'm no longer a #rapevictim
I no longer struggle with #eatingdisorder
I no longer feel the need to hold on to fear, anger and resentment towards men.
I #create podcast episodes and videos several times a week to support and inspire others even on days I feel poorly.
I push through hard times while being gentle on myself.

I'm able to be consistent without feeling drained for the first time in my life because I found something that brings me joy and excitement and stills my hunger to support people out there.

I try my best to understand people’s harsh opinions that are not in alignment with my values .

I learn every day on how to express myself better in a foreign language

I no longer use being bullied back then in school as an excuse in life to not show up for myself or others.

I ask questions, really annoying questions, in order to experience my environment and to find out what is best for me and my people around me ..
Yes, I still feel triggered in many situations.
Yes, I feel depressed and discouraged at times but I embrace it and don’t let it define me anymore.

Doing all this allows me to meet incredible people along the way.

People who:
- inspire me
- encourage me and ignite my deep compassion

I'm grateful for all of you and I’m so happy that I can learn from you and grow together with you .

We are all together in this beautiful mess called life
Thank you for being here

Lots of love and respect
A.
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Aurora Eggert

Hello there,
Born and raised in Germany under the influence of French culture I got a taste of how people perceive life and situations totally differently depending on how and where they grew up. this ignited my deepest curiosity for human behaviour at a very young age.

Being always more of an introvert and observant child I absorbed a lot of stuff that to this day weigh heavy on my soul but on the bright side I can say that these experiences make me relate so much deeper and better to the people around me.

I understand pain. I know suffering. I know how it feels to feel misunderstood.
People say I have a warm, soothing vibe and I enjoyed many years working as a physiotherapist in Germany.

Today I’m more venturing towards bringing healing through podcasting/ Life coaching and yoga. I also encourage people to spend more time out in nature and have a Yurt set up in our forest where I host regular relaxation classes.

I would like to call myself a perception shifter because this is what helped me on my path of (ongoing) healing - I’d love to offer perception shifting thoughts/views in order to make people feel more real and their life easier and their relationships deeper.

I’m also passionate about bringing awareness to locally grown food to people’s table as I’m certain that feeling empowered and real starts with what you nurture your body with and what you absorb with all senses from your environment on a daily basis .

I live in the Rocky Mountains
Raise a couple chickens Free range for eggs and grow a beautiful vegetable garden with my grandmother, fiance and mother in summer.

Podcasting became my passion because I can reach people all over the world- Give hope, make people feel less lonely and self-empowered. Furthermore the interviews with people from around the world expand my horizon and help me heal my soul.
Bonnie my pitbull is always at my side.
connect with me and share your story on my show .

Love ❤️
A.