Ep. 30 Not a nice girl, Not a good boy but a real Human [explicit]

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Hello, hello, and welcome to the Borealis

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experience. I'm your host Aurora, life coach and companion

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on this beautiful journey called life. And I'm very excited to be

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spending some time with you today. Your precious your loved

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your real. My dear warriors and goddesses out there, I'm so

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proud of you. Today I want to talk about being a nice girl

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being a good boy. Also, I want to talk about not being a nice

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girl not being a good boy. But being a real human being. Ah, I

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got so much energy today. I don't know where it's coming

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from. But I feel the need to strongly share with you what

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I've observed over the last couple of months and years. I

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see people desperately trying to fit in. I see people bending and

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distorting to belong, I see people crawling on the floors of

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self denial, and people pleasing. And it makes me sick.

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It makes me so sick to see. Because I know you're dimming

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your light. I know you're not living up to your potential. I

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know you're not being real. You're showing up as a five year

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old who's still scared of getting rejected by his parents,

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don't get me wrong back then. You needed to adapt. You needed

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to fit and you needed to belong because your life depended on

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it. But today, you're wild and free. You're big, you're

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powerful. And you're still doing the same bullshit like you did

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when you were five years old. It is so important to know that

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once we do what we want, once we pursue our desires or dreams,

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once we get closer to our goals,

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we're becoming ourselves, we're becoming the person that we're

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supposed to be. And when I ask people, What do you think would

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happen, if we will all do what we want?

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Let's pretend from now on we're going to do what we want, we're

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not going to do anything that we don't want anymore. And most

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people freak out at this idea. They say, Oh wha I'm not going

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to go to work anymore. I'm not going to make money. My kids

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will be hungry. I will slap my coworker and next time he gives

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me a shit comment. I will spit into my boss's face next time he

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tries to grab me. I will leave my children and the truck at

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minus 20 I will not attend any family dinners anymore. And

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yeah, people imagine the very worse when thinking of society

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doing whatever she or he wants. And I believe it is wrong. I

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think that yes, in the first couple of hours and the first

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days and the first maybe week we will go about and kind of test

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out the limits. And behave weirdly because now we can do

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what we want. But very quickly, we will come to sense that we

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can actually do something with that beautiful freedom that we

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all of a sudden feel creative. And if we really can do what we

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want. Why not create something beautiful, why not being loving?

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You see, I see people as animals and people will know how much I

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love animals and not you know putting humans up there and

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animals down there or now vice versa. Once we are being allowed

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to express ourselves fully to do what we want we will be the most

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creative are loving, best people best version that we can be, I

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strongly believe in this. And to believe that we'll walk around

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and destroy and upset and all this will not be for long. Don't

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get me wrong, once you engage on a path of integrity, you will

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face resistance, you will face bribery, you will face Harishon,

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harshness and upset people. Because all of a sudden, you're

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doing your own thing. And you challenge their beliefs, you

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challenge their little box that they are sitting in and you used

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to sit into. And that's fucking uncomfortable. That's not nice.

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And that's the resistance, you'll be meeting. But if you do

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what you want out of true integrity and love, you will

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automatically create something beautiful for humanity, you will

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not be selfish, like some people will call you, you will inspire

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others to do the same to be their most authentic, powerful

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self. And in doing that, you'll be starting to create a society

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that is truly resilient, adaptable to change, loving,

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caring. We're all lived, live such a suppressed life, we learn

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to be quiet, we learn to agree when we don't really feel to

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agree. We learn to serve on days that we really don't want to

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serve because we are exhausted, we need to recharge our

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batteries. But we still decide to serve and we don't do it out

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of a loving and caring attitude. We do it because it's expected

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from us. And if we don't serve, we're going to be facing drama.

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And that's even worse. So we choose to serve, even if we

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don't feel like serving. And then we do it out of spite we do

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it out of resentment. Does that create a strong society? I don't

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believe so. So why don't we all start engaging on a path of

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lying a little bit less to ourselves. And we start taking

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one degree adjustments, we're not going to steer the steering

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wheel dramatically to a 90 or even 180 degree angle, we're

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just going to start with one or two or three degree changes in

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our lives. And these changes will work wonders. You will feel

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more yourself you will be more authentic with people. They will

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feel that and be able to connect more deeply with you. Because

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they will see what you're made of you will be more trustworthy.

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Take a deep inhale and then exhale. If you feel the time is

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right. You have no time to waste. Life is so damn short.

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And I want to be the person who reminds you of that. You'll be

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lying on your deathbed one day. I hope you have a peaceful

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death. And when you lay there, I don't want you to regret. I want

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you to know that you lived a juicy life with laughter and

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bonding to connection alive. That couldn't be more authentic.

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Start steering your wheel towards integrity. We want to

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see what you're made of. We trust that your core is good,

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inherently good and so loving and so creative and so needed

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out there. So please start engaging on this beautiful, fun,

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revealing, but also terrifying journey of authenticity and

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integrity. I'm sending my love out to you. I respect you so

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much. And please don't hold back. If you have any comments

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about this. Please share. If you're so resonates with my

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content here, and you if you haven't already, please

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subscribe to my podcast. If you feel you want to learn more

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about all this, if you want to engage on a coaching journey

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with me, reach out and I'll be there and I'll create a program

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for you that is specific to your needs. take really good care of

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yourself. I'll be out there very soon again.